People with Sun Opposite Pluto in their Natal Chart will experience abandonment, abuse, betrayal, and secrecy in their life. When they are still young, uniting or merging with the other person is their obsession. They see themselves and others — specially the ones they love — as one and inseparable. They have a hard time letting go with abusive relationships. Because once they decided to be together, their bond and commitment is extremely strong. As if they made a vow to be with that person forever even how hard the situation is.
Those with Natal Sun Opposite Pluto often love others more than they love themselves. Their obsession of coming together with their special someone is the reason of their miseries and loss of self respect. The cycle of abuse, betrayal, secrecy, and abandonment will continue unless they realize that they should value themselves first. These people must be aware that they are individuals with a separate identity and should also concentrate on themselves. They should focus on a new hobby or activities like exercise, work, achieving goals, or anything that will occupy their time and energy that have to do with their own lives.
They should be aware that controlling the other person to satisfy their own desires will just backfire. People with Sun Opposite Pluto in their natal chart must realize that, if the other person value their relationship and truly loves them, that person is willing and will do everything for the Sun opposite Pluto person without having to manipulate every move.
I’m emphasizing about self love because those who have Pluto Opposite Sun in their natal chart needs to learn to let go of any abusive relationships (if it cannot be resolved). It doesn’t mean that they should to take away their attached personality. Because that is where they are happy. They need to remind themselves to leave if the relationship that does not brings joy anymore. Once they mastered to value and love themselves first, then it will be the time to finally meet the right person. Someone who is willing to commit and appreciate their true personality!
In their later age, Sun Opposite Pluto people are often judged by others by being egoistic and selfish. It is not true! They just learned a lot from their experiences and does not want to repeat the same mistakes again. Once they find out that someone truly cares for them then they automatically reciprocate.